The bible says that “perfect love drives out all fear.” 1 John 4:18
In whatever situation you’re facing right now, fear can only overcome in lack of love. Just how our bodies get cold and we’re in need of warmth.
So when you’re afraid of leaving someone because of something that might happen, it indicates not that you’re in love; you’re scared.
Or if you’re afraid of taking a job opening because of potential rejection, even if you do it, you won’t have as much as good drive as taking the job in hopes of great expectation and experience.
So for your relationships and future, I encourage you to do things because you love to do them. Find love in everything you do and you’ll find yourself exactly where you need to be. At peace.
I’d rather say more “I hope, I hope, I hope“‘s than “I’m scared…I’m nervous…I’m shy!” Because the former was easier to say as a teenager and the latter seems to get more effortless to say as I get older.